Untangling: Family Models of Bad Eldercare

I had finally untangled my mother’s manipulations from her real need. But what was I going to do in terms of caretaking? My mother was lucky I wasn’t drawing on family models because my grandmother had not dealt with her mother in a way that I wanted to embrace. If you want to hear the full story about this part of my memoir, use this link: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cu4oePnAT7j/