A pile of papers that are on top of each other.

Untangling: What it means to hurt (Chapter 26)

My parents’ divorce wars caused lengthy nightly phone calls. I couldn’t hang up and my tears caused Ron pain. His wish for me to hang up was a sanity my enmeshment wouldn’t permit. A mistake causing physical pain became comic relief and “never hurting you intentionally” was oft quoted when our marriage faced hurtful moments. If you want to hear my short reading go to this link: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cx-sQZrgGNH/